"If I was a tree growing tall and green. All I's want is you to shade me and be my leaves" from the soundtrack of juno and the lyrics of Barry Louis Polisar
Once upon a time, not so long ago, a little boy was born . He came into this world easily but after leaving the protective environment of his mothers womb things changed. You see inside the womb he could grow but his body was too fragile for the outside world. He couldn't drink milk like the other babies in the family had and he didn't grow. In order to be repaired he needed to be bigger and stronger. His family brought him home to care for him surrounded by love. His mother spent all the hours in a day trying to feed him, warm him and love him so he would grow. His father spent all his time caring for his brother and sisters . Despite all the love and care he was given the little boy never grew and one night when he was sleeping he stopped breathing. His family was sad that their little boy would never grow up and be able to experience the things that this family loved to do together . Spring passed by and at the beginning of summer the little boy's father and sister set out on a canoe trip to a very special area where the oldest white pine trees in the forest grew. It was a very hard trip for a young girl to make but she managed it. They placed the little boy's ashes under the spectacular pine trees . They camped for the night and then headed back home in the canoe. The little boy's ashes became one with the earth and over the years he became part of the matrix of the great white pine trees in that area. For the first time in his life he grew and will continue to do so because this area is protected .
Did you know that the white pine is the only pine tree that spells its name with its little bunches of 5 needles.
Happy birthday little tree boy
THANK YOU SO MUCH MARGIE for sharing the story of the little boy with us. From experience and as a woman I can understand how amazing is the presence of a little person who leaves us suddenly. This presence stays with us forever and it grows in meaning as we get older. Happy birthday little boy! I am sure that wherever you are right now you are extremely proud of having had such an amazing life surrounded of love and care. Today your whole family is celebrating your presence!
Kisses from a new friend!
Elsita :)
Posted by: Elsita | January 19, 2008 at 02:51 PM
OMG Margie. My heart hurts for you.
Posted by: Crystal | January 19, 2008 at 03:33 PM
the loss and beauty bring me to tears. much peace to you.
Posted by: cathygaubert | January 20, 2008 at 12:02 AM
Such a sad story, it's especially tough to read being a newish mum with an eleven month old little man of my own. you have a lovely blog and I enjoyed my visit :)
Kim McCabe
Curiouser & Curiouser Designs
http://kimandliamsblog.blogspot.com/
Posted by: Kim McCabe | January 20, 2008 at 12:46 AM
Beautiful. That is a beautiful story - birth, death, growth. It's all so important. Thank you for sharing.
Posted by: Sonya | January 20, 2008 at 02:06 PM
Such a beautiful remembrance of your special tree boy. It makes me cry. Love Helen
Posted by: helen | January 20, 2008 at 06:08 PM
Here's to you, precious boy.
And a reach-out to your mother.
Posted by: Cherry | February 03, 2008 at 04:47 AM
Here's to you, precious boy.
And a reach-out to your mother.
Posted by: Cherry | February 03, 2008 at 04:49 AM
Thank you sweet soul.
Grow big and strong dear pine.
Oh Margie thank you.
Hugs from a distance.
Rane and baby
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Posted by: Rane | January 19, 2009 at 08:40 AM
I am sending the little tree boy much love from afar as he grows big and strong with the pine and also his Mummy, Daddy and brother and sisters. I am so sorry not to have read this yesterday Margie and sent you a hug, your little tree boy is so beautiful.
XXX
Posted by: | January 20, 2009 at 02:58 AM
Thank you for linking back to this beautiful and touching story. The spirit of your boy no doubt is with his grandmother. Warmth and love to all of you.
Posted by: nicole | January 20, 2010 at 08:08 AM
Oh, what a poignant story....right now I feel that a little boy is sitting in the lap of his grandmother, under the shade of a white pine, and he is telling her stories of all the birds that have rested in the branches. She is listening and nodding and smiling....
Peace to you.
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Posted by: andrea gutierrez | April 08, 2010 at 02:17 AM
I'm not sure if I can find the words to express just how deeply this touches me. My baby sister died when I was 5 and even though it was over 40 years ago, her magic is always with me. Thank you. Kim
Posted by: Kim | April 08, 2010 at 06:13 AM
Thankyou for sharing this beautiful tale of love, loss, and beautiful memories. I had somehow missed it previously, but I always knew there was something Knowing of Loss about you.
What a transformation your son has made, such a bittersweet joy to think of him so. Only those who loved him so could bear such sweet sorrow, knowing he no longer suffered.
(((hugs)))
Posted by: Laura | April 08, 2010 at 09:23 AM
oh, margie. i missed the post the first time around and am so touched. i will never see a white pine again without honoring the memory of the tree boy who was finally able to grow. xxx
Posted by: kristin | April 08, 2010 at 06:31 PM
dear margie, thank you for sharing this beautiful story with us. i'm so sorry to have missed the story when you first posted about it. it's tender and heartbreaking. hugs to you and your family today. xxx
Posted by: melissa | April 09, 2010 at 12:48 AM
He couldn't drink milk like the other babies in the family had and he didn't grow.
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