"Surprised by joy - impatient as the wind
I wished to share the transport"
William Wordsworth
This is the time of year when many of our children leave home to return to school, college or university. They do so with different degrees of separation from us, their parents.
Some do so slowly and hesitantly.
Some moms and dads find it really difficult to shed the protective cover.
Then there are those children that as soon as the door is open and you step away they explode forth into the world ready to experience the world.
Just like the seed pod of impatiens glandulifera that can travel over 7 meters after the trigger mechanism of the pod is released. This plant is related to the native wildflower jewelweed.
Remember that no matter which way they journey they remain strongly connected to home and you through the veins of your love.
You are the rock on which the foundation of their life was built on.
As they leave home in the quiet moments there will be tears and oh yes there will be joy.
As I was just finishing this post two things happened a show came on the radio talking about "invasive parenting" which is something quite simply we should not do. This reminded me of a book called "free range children" by Lenore Skenazy and I just discovered she has a blog. The other thing that happened was my power went out suddenly and the post wasn't autosaved as normally happens. So this second writing of the post may be slightly different than the original and for that I apologize.
Dear Margie,
I was feeling a bit emotional today.
I left my mum's home a few days ago. And it's been a tad harder than usual.
So I decided that I'll go and visit her again on Halloween. Yay ! I bought a very cheap ticket and all :D
See ? Even when we get older, we still need our momma.
Especially when they're great like my mother. Or your children's mother ;)
Loads of hugs,
x x x
___mathyld___
Posted by: Mathyld / encore petite | September 07, 2009 at 10:37 AM
This is so true for me.
Posted by: Marianne Wille | September 07, 2009 at 01:13 PM
Most lovely post I've ever read. Struck my heart & tugged at tears but in a good way. I don't feel so alone as I watch my son "explode forth." Thank you.
Posted by: Sonja | September 07, 2009 at 02:02 PM
this is a lovely post, margie. i think you have very lucky children. x
Posted by: melissa | September 07, 2009 at 10:03 PM
My children left on their own adventures years ago. I still miss their laughter and chatter. I is good to see them blossoming into caring adults with dreams coming true.
Beautiful post Margie.
Posted by: kathi | September 07, 2009 at 10:40 PM
I'm so happy to be able to see your lovely images and read your wonderful words once again.
This is a topic I've been visiting with my husband recently, it's foremost in our minds as our two children have just begun at their new school. I'll look up Skenazy's book, thanks.
Posted by: joanie | September 08, 2009 at 09:53 AM
Tomorrow is the first day of kindergarten for my son, and when I read this, I felt as if you were writing it especially for me.
It is so sweet and bittersweet...
Posted by: Maiz | September 08, 2009 at 04:16 PM
Tomorrow is the first full day. We're ready. I'm sad. happy. proud. This post meant alot to me. Thank you
p.s She loved her transition day so much that she couldn't wait for the morning to come. Just like Christmas. What more could I want?
Posted by: mayaluna | September 08, 2009 at 10:11 PM
I just want to thank you so much for this post. I am a kindergarten teacher with a 12 year old daughter, and when I read it when you first posted it, I was thinking of all the new little ones who would come to me for the first time, and what a gift that was. Now, my own daughter leaves tomorrow for a week-long trip to the wilds of Yosemite, and I returned to this post to find my own comfort. What you have written is something we need to come back to again and again. I start my day every day by checking your blog. A much better way to start than the newspaper, I'd say! Thank you ever so much!
Posted by: Justine Costerouse | September 13, 2009 at 10:49 AM